To be able to move on, one has to learn to forgive not only the person (or people) who have done one wrong but also oneself.
~ Eugenia Tripputi
Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don't resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.
Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.